QUOTE (utsoftball @ Apr 18 2009, 10:03 AM)

It's amazing what people will post
In hindsight, I may have directed my sarcasm at a player. If that is the case, then I apologize. The play on the field was great, and as I said before Van should have won period, and it is not my intent to take anything away from their victory - their victory was not won or lost by their coach, but by their play on the field, no doubt in my mind about that. Further, I will never knowingly argue with a child.
I've only witnessed bad behavior from
players a couple of times over the last 6 years of following high school ball. I certainly don't bash any of them. Hopefully their parents or coaches will have set them straight.
What disturbs me are comments such as:
Last night you could also tell what side the umpires were on...
OKay yeah at that game the Van coach got a little upset but for every time he did there was a point he was trying to make...
He was
not happy after the fact!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not about his softball coaches actions
pretty sure he had a fine reason to argue. the officials were simply unfair and deserved to be argued with.
this new young coach and his over zealous approach to getting his point across
I find it surprising that alot of people seem to think that his behavior is somehow justified for any reason. I find it surprising that there are several different excuses given for his behavior. Hopefully I am wrong, but the messages coming across from some - but not all, are that his behavior condoned, especially in light of the fact that some have intimated it is a continuing issue, and not just that one game. I have to wonder why?
This coach has a responsibility to set a good example for his girls, and he also has a responsibility to represent his ENTIRE school. There is an expected decorum of a coach, and as someone pointed out, you simply just don't treat
anyone in that manner. You don't like the call? Be polite, ask for help from other umps, if you lose, thank them for the opportunity get off the field and let the game move on. Don't make the game about you, and your arguing skills. Its not all about you - its all about the players. You think the ump is incompetent? Pick up the phone and discuss it with his/her chapter the next day.
As far as I know Van has always been considered a classy competitor winning or losing, and this one coach is changing the opinion of many. That is a shame.