QUOTE (sprtsfaaaaan @ May 20 2009, 01:41 PM)

I hate that you feel the need to get on here and tear down a mans character when you dont even know him. Does it make you feel better about yourself. He is a good man. I dont see anyone on here bashing your coach. Which I'm sure she is a great person with good character. Believe it or not these high school kids that play for these coaches get on here and read the bogus stuff you write about there leader. You are setting a great example for these kids by talking about someone you know nothing about.
You are worried about kids coming on here reading things about this coach, but no one seems worried about the examples he sets for these kids each and every time he steps on the field and throws a temper tantrum? How long before his players start acting like he does? After all, it must be ok... As you told me in a previous post, and I certainly don't doubt the same is true for all those girls, they are all well-brought up young ladies, but what if they do start acting like him? Will you continue making excuses for his behavior?
You talk about his character because this person doesn't know him? The coach has made his character known to 100's of people through his behavior. While I don't know if he said what he said, the way he is accused of saying it, do you expect anyone that has had the "pleasure" of witnessing his antics to believe "he didn't mean it that way", when his actions in public have indicated he certainly could mean it exactly as accused. Its not beyond the realm of possibility. A "good man" does not act an idiot in front of anyone-- period. Are you saying that these umpires, somehow deserve to be the brunt of his treatment? Are they not, as human beings, worthy of a little decency? Do you think any one of them is calling these games to get rich? Then it must be for something besides the money.
He doesn't think twice about yelling at anyone else - and that is an obvious fact, but we are all supposed to believe he wouldn't dare do that to one of his kids?
Listen to yourselves. Why are you all apologists for him - because of your record? The
girls' record is great, and those
girls should be very proud of themselves, and certainly nothing should be taken away from
their successes, but you also mention you've had a kid that has been hurt 4 times this year alone!! Is he teaching them anything? Or is he just riding on the coat-tails of what has been handed to him, at the same time embarrassing a well-respected
school district. Or does the school district condone it because they are winning?
I hope with all my heart the Van
girls make it to State, but I feel sorry for them if they do make it, and people from all over the state see his behavior. Remember, at Austin, he will not only be representing his school, but this entire Region.
Years ago, when I still had a kid playing, she played for part of a season with someone similar to this coach. She was absolutely embarrassed to be associated with him and finally left the team. These girls don't have that choice, nor are
they likely in a position to feel comfortable sharing their feelings of embarrassment.
I say shame on parents, staff, administrators, and everyone else at Van for putting these beautiful young ladies in the situation, and remaining silent or worse - defending him!